Around a table so bare, The children share meager gains. A bowl of beans half-full A tortilla so thin.....
Say ‘No’ to Get What You Want
People I admire know how to be well-received without seeking validation. They respect their time and confidently say no to me or anyone. One told me recently she believes great happiness arises from what you say no to.,,,,,,,
The Power of Silence
I saw a tiny ray of light appear on the horizon and begin to chase the darkness away. Everything is so still at sunrise. I also stay silent during my waking hours. If I keep very still, I can hear the sound of silence and be fully presence for the miracle of another chance to get it right.....more
Real Goodbyes Come Slowly
Real goodbyes happen slowly, over time, like a slow drip. We stop checking on each other Until one day, we're strangers, worlds apart. Endings happen little by little, one moment at a time......more
Who Do You Think You Are?
You are not what others think, are you? But then you are also not what you think you are either. You are what you do. That’s what you are......more...
Your Best Work Should Divide Your Audience
True excellence in art is controversial. If everyone loves your work, it may be too safe. Embrace criticism; it shows your work is thought-provoking and boundary-pushing. Haters do not mean your creation is flawed; it challenges, inspires, and provokes change, a testament to the power of art and innovation.
How to Turn Up Your Creativity
Summary: Focus on creating your best work without seeking outside approval or fixating on rewards. Embrace the creative process and immerse yourself in the present moment. Let go of attachment to outcomes and trust your instincts to guide your art with passion and dedication. Accept that the future is beyond your control.
The Purest Form of Love
When in love, appreciation flows effortlessly, fueled by genuine affection. Unlike conditional love, appreciation sets relationships free, uncovering others' beauty. It is the glue binding familiar, friendly, and romantic relationships with unconditional acceptance. Keeping the flame of appreciation alive embodies the true essence of love.
How To Make Each Day A Best Day
In the morning, seek guidance to live each role well—to be a good sibling, parent, friend, citizen, and team player. Be a compassionate learner and teacher, and give selflessly. Embrace kindness, gratitude, and passion, and cherish life's surprises. This daily prayer is a plea for a purposeful and generous existence. #ShareThisPost.
Why I Pray Every Day
Prayer isn't exclusive to the religious or a last resort in weakness and desperate times; it is a time-honored tool accessible anytime. By pausing to center ourselves, quiet the surrounding noise, and attune to the whispers of our hearts, we gain the clarity and perspective necessary to confront formidable challenges.
Why You Must Tell Your Story
One day, you will tell your story. The tale of what you’ve been through—of how you got to where you are. No matter how ordinary your life might feel, someone needs to hear how you made it......more
Liking Yourself: No Mere Buzzword.
Liking yourself is the most significant achievement in your life. Don't buy this statement because I believe I'm a writer, but because I'm 78. Don't live your life blind to the beauty of your existence, taking this magnificent achievement of truly liking yourself for granted. ...more
The Illusion of Eternity
Wisps of steam rise from my coffee, swirling like the mesmerizing dance of a snake charmer's spell. That first sip whisks me back to simpler days, to the smell of coffee and chalk dust in the teacher's lounge and the unique scent of my childhood crayon box...more
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